Sermon Notes: Seven First Words: Paschal Family
This Lent we reflect on the words of Christ from the cross. Continue to explore last week’s message with these scripture passages and questions that offer a meaningful way to deepen your faith.
Going Deeper
"Paschal Family"
1. Standing at the Cross
Read: John 19:25–27
Who is present at the cross, and what does their presence reveal about devotion and courage?
Most of Jesus’ disciples had fled (Matthew 26:56), yet a few faithful followers remained near the cross.
Reflection:
Why do you think these individuals stayed when others ran?
Life Application:
Where in your life is Jesus inviting you to remain faithful even when following Him is costly or uncomfortable?
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2. Jesus Builds Family in the Middle of Suffering
Read: John 19:26–27
Even while dying, Jesus creates a new family connection between Mary and the beloved disciple.
Theological Insight:
Early church fathers like St. Augustine saw this moment as symbolic of the church being born at the cross.
Reflection:
Why is it significant that Jesus’ concern in His suffering includes relationships and community?
Life Application:
How can suffering sometimes deepen our relationships with others rather than isolate us?
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3. The Cross Redefines Family
Read: Mark 3:31–35
Jesus expands the definition of family beyond biological ties.
Reflection:
How does Jesus redefine belonging in the kingdom of God?
Life Application:
How can the church today become a place where people truly experience spiritual family?
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4. The Meaning of “Paschal”
Read: Exodus 12:1–14 and John 1:29
The word Paschal comes from the Hebrew Pesach (Passover).
Theological Insight:
In the Passover, the lamb’s blood protected Israel from death. The New Testament identifies Jesus as the ultimate Passover lamb (1 Corinthians 5:7).
Reflection:
What connections do you see between the Passover lamb and Jesus’ sacrifice?
Life Application:
How does understanding Jesus as the Paschal Lamb deepen your appreciation of the cross?
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5. The Church as a Household
Read: Ephesians 2:19–22
Paul describes believers as members of God’s household.
Reflection:
What does it mean for the church to function as a family rather than simply an organization?
Life Application:
What practical steps could help your church grow into a stronger spiritual family?
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6. Caring for the Vulnerable
Read: James 1:27 and Acts 6:1–7
The early church organized systems to care for widows and the vulnerable.
Historical Insight:
Roman historians noted that Christians were known for caring for the poor and abandoned children when others would not.
Reflection:
Why do you think caring for the vulnerable became such a defining feature of early Christianity?
Life Application:
Who are the “widows and orphans” in our society today?
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7. The Cost of Real Community
Read: Romans 12:9–16
Real family requires humility, patience, and sacrificial love.
Reflection:
Why is authentic Christian community often difficult to maintain?
Life Application:
Which of the commands in Romans 12 do you find most challenging in relationships?
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8. Healing Broken Family Systems
Read: Romans 5:6–11
The gospel reveals that Christ entered a broken world to restore relationships.
Insight from Psychology:
Family systems theory notes that change in a family often begins when one person chooses a healthier response rather than repeating old patterns.
Reflection:
How does the cross empower us to break destructive relational cycles?
Life Application:
What is one relational pattern in your life that God may be inviting you to change?
⸻
9. The Witness of Love
Read: John 13:34–35
Jesus said the world would recognize His followers by their love.
Reflection:
Why is love such a powerful testimony to the reality of Christ?
Life Application:
How might sacrificial love within the church become a witness to those outside the faith?
⸻
10. Choosing What Kind of Family You Will Be
Read: Joshua 24:14–15
Joshua calls Israel to make a clear commitment: “As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.”
Reflection:
Why is intentional commitment necessary for building a Christ-centered family?
Life Application:
What would it look like for your home, friendships, or church to intentionally become a Paschal family centered on the cross and resurrection?
Going Deeper
"Paschal Family"
1. Standing at the Cross
Read: John 19:25–27
Who is present at the cross, and what does their presence reveal about devotion and courage?
Most of Jesus’ disciples had fled (Matthew 26:56), yet a few faithful followers remained near the cross.
Reflection:
Why do you think these individuals stayed when others ran?
Life Application:
Where in your life is Jesus inviting you to remain faithful even when following Him is costly or uncomfortable?
⸻
2. Jesus Builds Family in the Middle of Suffering
Read: John 19:26–27
Even while dying, Jesus creates a new family connection between Mary and the beloved disciple.
Theological Insight:
Early church fathers like St. Augustine saw this moment as symbolic of the church being born at the cross.
Reflection:
Why is it significant that Jesus’ concern in His suffering includes relationships and community?
Life Application:
How can suffering sometimes deepen our relationships with others rather than isolate us?
⸻
3. The Cross Redefines Family
Read: Mark 3:31–35
Jesus expands the definition of family beyond biological ties.
Reflection:
How does Jesus redefine belonging in the kingdom of God?
Life Application:
How can the church today become a place where people truly experience spiritual family?
⸻
4. The Meaning of “Paschal”
Read: Exodus 12:1–14 and John 1:29
The word Paschal comes from the Hebrew Pesach (Passover).
Theological Insight:
In the Passover, the lamb’s blood protected Israel from death. The New Testament identifies Jesus as the ultimate Passover lamb (1 Corinthians 5:7).
Reflection:
What connections do you see between the Passover lamb and Jesus’ sacrifice?
Life Application:
How does understanding Jesus as the Paschal Lamb deepen your appreciation of the cross?
⸻
5. The Church as a Household
Read: Ephesians 2:19–22
Paul describes believers as members of God’s household.
Reflection:
What does it mean for the church to function as a family rather than simply an organization?
Life Application:
What practical steps could help your church grow into a stronger spiritual family?
⸻
6. Caring for the Vulnerable
Read: James 1:27 and Acts 6:1–7
The early church organized systems to care for widows and the vulnerable.
Historical Insight:
Roman historians noted that Christians were known for caring for the poor and abandoned children when others would not.
Reflection:
Why do you think caring for the vulnerable became such a defining feature of early Christianity?
Life Application:
Who are the “widows and orphans” in our society today?
⸻
7. The Cost of Real Community
Read: Romans 12:9–16
Real family requires humility, patience, and sacrificial love.
Reflection:
Why is authentic Christian community often difficult to maintain?
Life Application:
Which of the commands in Romans 12 do you find most challenging in relationships?
⸻
8. Healing Broken Family Systems
Read: Romans 5:6–11
The gospel reveals that Christ entered a broken world to restore relationships.
Insight from Psychology:
Family systems theory notes that change in a family often begins when one person chooses a healthier response rather than repeating old patterns.
Reflection:
How does the cross empower us to break destructive relational cycles?
Life Application:
What is one relational pattern in your life that God may be inviting you to change?
⸻
9. The Witness of Love
Read: John 13:34–35
Jesus said the world would recognize His followers by their love.
Reflection:
Why is love such a powerful testimony to the reality of Christ?
Life Application:
How might sacrificial love within the church become a witness to those outside the faith?
⸻
10. Choosing What Kind of Family You Will Be
Read: Joshua 24:14–15
Joshua calls Israel to make a clear commitment: “As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.”
Reflection:
Why is intentional commitment necessary for building a Christ-centered family?
Life Application:
What would it look like for your home, friendships, or church to intentionally become a Paschal family centered on the cross and resurrection?
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